Books are Open for Oakland and San Francisco Doula Contract Consultations

Hi Oakland and San Francisco Doula friends. I’m heading back up north for a long weekend and am available July 25th, 26th, 28th, 29th for private and small group contract consultations. They’re two hour sessions to go over contract edits or where we can begin if you’re hoping to have me draft contracts for you.

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Check out the Contract Writing page to learn more about these services and email me what days and times you have open in my trip window and whether you’re in SF or Oakland.

Looking forward to working with you!


Prior to being a doula, I was an international legal researcher, focused primarily on legal issues around migrant and refugee persons and their status in international protection law. I did all sorts of legal research work from my thesis on environmental refugees, to breaking down complex UN resolutions as easily digestible information for crisis analysts, and even some temporary legal work in the US as a legal receptionist and file clerk.

When I started off as a doula a decade ago, my goal was always to gain skills necessary to help with broader policy initiatives around maternal health and the rights of birth workers.

In the past few years, I’ve begun teaching birth workers about how to write solid contracts and other business documents. I started teaching workshops on this topic and doing private consultations where I either edit their existing contracts and give doulas tools to write their own solid documents, or written them for them.

In an effort to reach more doulas in an efficient and cost effective way, I’ve written a 40 page booklet on contract writing for doulas and other birth professionals. Here is a breakdown of what’s inside :

Part 1 : Introduction and Bare Bones

Cover of the booklet

Cover of the booklet

This section is a brief overview of the booklet and how to use it to guide you through your contract writing, followed by the basic structure and necessary components of any contract. What do you need to include to cover all your basis? What sort of documents should you make sure to have? What are your options for structuring your contracts? And more…

Part II: Private Practice

This is a rundown of how to create great contracts when you are a sole practitioner. There is a long discussion on Scope of Practice and Liability considerations — two of the most daunting things for any birth worker to consider and the topics most of my contract consultation clients find most concerning. The conversation then moves to payment — setting fees and setting payment structures. I talk about the differences between Cancellations and Terminations, which is almost always overlooked in doula contracts, but is a significant source of control over your practice. Next up is a rundown of the considerations around setting your practice limitations regarding scheduling. Then onward to a breakdown of some considerations regarding sliding scale, volunteer, and trade work. Last in this section is a discussion around the importance of Peer Review in our communities and some mock examples of case studies that address many of the common issues birth workers see in their practices with some sample suggestions of how to improve your contract to avoid them.

Pat III : Other Doula Documents

This section really covers the waterfront in terms of addressing some of the other official documents doulas need to consider in their private and group practices. Back-up contracts, how to work with a doula agency, starting your own agency, HIPAA considerations, copyrighting, and more.

I’ve managed to cram quite a lot in there, but my workshops and private consults always prove to me that there is so little of this covered in doula trainings, so at least having a brief discussion on each topic, with many pages dedicated to some of the essentials seems like a fitting way to use my research skillset to help my fellow birth workers have more sustainable practices.

If you are a doula trainer and are interested in getting a preview of my booklet, just email me! I will happily send you some sample pages and let you know about my teacher referral program.

And keep an eye out for the printed version of the booklet launching in August. I’ll be using it for the first time to guide us through my upcoming Advanced Doula Trainings coming to Sacramento on August 4th. Very excited.

Nanny Contracts Part 1 : For the Nanny

According the the US Bureau of Labor Statistics, there are over 1.2 million nannies working in the US, with an average growth rate of 7% per year, plus the steady stream of job openings due to care takers leaving for similar or more skilled occupations regularly. 

Unfortunately, the value of childcare in this country is dismal. It’s become a political talking point amongst conservatives and progressives alike, but little has changed in the reality of in-home care being an under regulated, underpaid, undervalued job sector. Though many nannies are working full time and are asked by the families they work with to have some level of education and advanced certification (such as CPR and First Aid, more if working with very young children) like care providers at daycares and preschools, they are rarely paid as well or given considerations like sick days or paid vacation days. They’re often paid under the table, which has some benefits for some, but can cause complications for many career nannies. 

In some areas, nanny agencies, both open hearted and predatory, have emerged to fill in some of the gaps in communication and regulation between family and care provider. The best of them provide certifications, career support, arbitration, and financial protection for the nannies while providing security and ease of service for families. The more unsavory agencies charge exorbitant rates, skim large amounts off the top (usually meaning the nannies get paid pennies on the dollar), provide little more than head hunting services, and have themselves tightly bound legally so that they don’t have to extend their involvement in contractual or legal issues beyond terminating the agreement. 

No matter how the arrangement is first formed between nanny and family, one massively undercooked component of forming a safe, healthy, mutually beneficial, and long-term relationship is in having a solid contract. 

I find that when I am working with doulas on their client contracts, they often are afraid of adding much of anything to their documents out of fear that it will seem aggressive, or like they are accusing their clients of the worst at the onset of the arrangement. I always urge them to consider the opposite — that having the chance to talk about expectations sets the stage for talking about positive aspects of the agreement foremost, while possibly protecting you from potential arguments later down the road. As professionals and parents, no one should fear honest conversations around frameworks of care.

For you as a nanny, you should have already taken the time to consider your needs — financial, physical, in scheduling, with regards to communication style, etc. — before starting to take interviews. Not that these things can’t shift if you find the right match otherwise, but it is an essential practice when applying to a job in any profession to form an opinion on these things beforehand.

Coming into negotiations — and there’s no reason to brush over the fact that even in this caring profession, you are negotiating your needs as a business person in the interviews and hiring process, so don’t shy away from it — with your needs already defined for yourself will help you seem committed to the work, easy to work with, that take your work seriously (which should be a strong selling point for any parent leaving their children in your care), and are open to communicating honestly. These are all assets in care work, even if they aren’t what’s typically highlighted in discussions around nanny requirements. 

In terms of working with a contract, it is still not common practice for families to do so. You may need to take the initial leap of suggesting one be made. You might also want to make the initial step of presenting a family with something you wrote in advance. It can be a strong component of your interviews to bring a sample contract along. There’s no reason to view that as an affront or aggression, so don’t deliver it hesitantly. You can confidently speak to how you came about choosing the terms within it, offer it as another way you are helping take some stress off parents by having these terms worked out in advance, and remind them that this is just the first step in the negotiations and that you may be amenable to components of the contract pre-hire and perhaps even as the relationship develops. 

Again, on the note on feeling hesitant that families might react poorly to such a move, I want to suggest that that situation might signal a red flag anyway. If that family does not see the contract in it’s essence (so that’s not to say that they have particular issues with what’s in the contract, which might be amended after talking it over more) to be a promising sign, it might be that they don’t want to see you as a working professional of value and you may have issues around your needs as things move along. This is particularly true if this work is going to be full-time and / or your sole source of income, but it is true regardless of those things, too. You are going to be expected to give a high level of care to their children, so they should treat your role with a high level of respect. Period. 

Now, having said that, you are unlikely to get a positive response from many families if your contract is a copy and paste document with difficult, technical legal language which neither party fully understands. I say this constantly with my students and mentees — If neither party understands what they’re signing, neither party is truly protected. 

Same for if the bulk of the contract is covering liability alone. Paragraph after paragraph of what you are NOT liable for still, quite honestly, can only protect you so much (no matter how often you say “not liable,” you can still be tried for gross negligence) and can set the stage for a tense relationship. To put it bluntly, no one wants to start a relationship on having to read three pages of legal language around dead babies. You should consider some terms of liability, but you should also purchase (or have the family cover for you) liability insurance, which you can make note of in your contract in simple and effective language. Having a statement of Scope of Practice and approved services rendered goes a long way in covering liability concerns, too, so make sure you consider what that will look like in advance. 

Nor should your contract be exclusively about getting paid. That is an issue I come across with doula contracts constantly — they are often one page documents with a paragraph about liability and six paragraphs about payment and that’s that. Though it is important that both issues are addressed in your contracts, it’s important for the contract to express the nature of this relationship as a two-way street, which means that you need to offer your scope and accountability as well as the ways and amounts you wish to be paid. 

Addressing both those concerns with clear, simple, firm language will hopefully help stave off some of the anxieties around contract negotiating feeling overtly aggressive or lopsided. 

Beyond those elements, some things to consider either putting directly into your sample contract from the outset or at least having a formal offer to present in writing are :

  • Handling Illness — Missed days and otherwise

  • Vacation Days

  • Health Insurance

  • Car Usage

  • Reimbursement Methods for Accrued Expenses / Per Diem

  • Backup Providers

  • Cancellation and Rescheduling Terms

  • Performance Review and Raises / Bonuses

  • Taxes

Returning to the subject of working with an agency, it is important that you consider those terms if you have the umbrella of an organization, too. Some agencies are more hands on in their contracts — setting the terms of expectations — while others do little more than pairing families with nannies and remain hands off regarding how the relationship unfolds. 

If you are working with a more interactive agency, it is totally fine to negotiate your contract to include certain terms that work well for you. Professionals do this all the time when starting new jobs, and if you are a professional nanny, you should have the option to do so, too. If they won’t budge and these terms are important to you, you can figure out having an addenda (aka an added form) to you contract that you sign with the family (there are specifics on how to make that legally binding you’ll have to consider) or it might mean that you are going to have to find work outside of this particular agency. It is important, too, that you read over and discuss the contract that you have with the agency itself to make sure you are getting a good deal and are offered some accommodation in what they’re providing at cost. And I cannot stress this enough, when working with an agency, you should read and be privy to signing EVERY contract between you and the family, not just a contract between you and the agency. You are an independent contractor in this scenario and you are going to be held the most liable in the case of an unfortunate event, so you must be able to see what you are signing onto and be part of that negotiation of accountability and action. If an agency fights you on that front, it is unlikely they understand the best interests of the care provider and it might be a good idea to look for work elsewhere. 

If you are working through an agency that is more on the matchmaking side, you should still be able to have an independent contract with the family. You might have a tremendous amount of flexibility and control in this regard, but it’s a good idea to check back in with the terms of the pairing service. 

Okay, so I hope that helps you feel more confident about your ability to take charge of your career as a nanny and to put it in writing. 

I offer Nanny Contract Writing packages and consultations, so please reach out if you have questions about how I might be able to help you. You could also consider checking out my booklet Contract Writing for Doulas (and Other Birth Workers), which dives deeper into these issues and more, much of which is very applicable for any in-home care provider. My workshops, too, can offer you a chance to sit and edit or draft your contracts in real time and leave you with some hard questions answered, so come on and join us doulas anytime. 

Good luck!

Why Doulas Should Work with Contracts

I had the great privilege of being interviewed by Esther Gallagher for The Fourth Trimester Podcast on why it’s important to have a doula contract — both for the doula and for the client.

Framing this as an opportunity to use the contract to open dialogue, instead of it just being a boring or intimidating part of our profession, I brought up issues around setting expectations, strengthening our community and individual practices, and other fundamental components of our demanding practices.

These are some of the key issues I address in my contract writing workshops and individual contract edits for doulas, midwives, and nannies. I also cover things like :

  • Termination vs Cancellation

  • Deposits and fees

  • Scope of Practice and Practice Restrictions

  • Doula - to - Doula Paperwork and Partnership

My next workshop will be on January 17th from 4:30-7pm in Oakland. Sign up before Jan. 5th for an early bird discount! You can register on my Contact Page or contact me directly for more information. All types of in-home, independently contracted care providers are welcome to join us.


I highly encourage parents and providers to take a listen to this episode, as well as the other incredible interviews Esther and Sarah have conducted over the past year. Please consider subscribing to The Fourth Trimester Podcast on Patreon so they can keep this resource going!